Whenever you cry and do hear then “look to the cross” – what does it mean to you? Is it not just a rhetorical figure, nothing more than words? You are absolutely right... These four words will remain meaningless and unfair until you hear them in the context of the Gospel.
Jesus, our Master stated :
"I tell you the truth, no servant is better than his master”
He has also died on the cross for our sins. That's meaningful.
So why to run from one's destiny? It's better to be prepared: for the cross and the Heaven are the same.